What is it like to be a Vietnamese born in the U.S.?
People ask much from you, like "do you speak Chinese?" and "are you from China?" when you are just an Asian kid born in the US. I'm Vietnamese and I live a life like any other kid around here. I was born in the US, and I still keep the Vietnamese tradition running in my life. It's not too much, but the only differences that I have with American kids are that I speak three languages, English, Vietnamese, and (enough to have conversation) Spanish. I also have a large immediate family that gathers to socialize on holidays, (and Birthday's, etc.) where most American's keep individual and rarely gather with their immediate family. The next to last difference is that I live with a different culture where we celebrate different holidays, shop at very different stores, and do different arts and crafts (cooking, games), and we most of the time eat Vietnamese food. The last difference is that I have really strict parents with very strict rules (not like: "You must have correct posture!" Or silly things), and punishments (which isn't fair once I learned what American kids go through), where American kids just get grounded. Other than that, I still dress, eat, read, write, sing, etc. like any other kid, only I occasionally get pestered about the "Are you Chinese?" thing. I love being Asian because I am different from American's and get more family activities, AND getting a guest is just so cool because you get to do all this stuff for him/her that you usually don't do. I'm also proud to be Asian because I am, its just one of those things that you are happy about.

Please learn and enjoy as you please,

Ashtonhuy Q. Do

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